Life!!

Once, someone asked me about the life, what could I say him? I had left all the facilities of the easiness of the life. I was in the way of enlightenment of life, I was trying to persuade the connection of life with death, and still I was not getting even a single ray that could help me to enlighten the life and the definition of the death. I could say all of these things to him. I listened him and I got in puzzle. I did not reply to him. In spite, I started thinking about the way and the pattern of life that how we spend and how we feel. I had no choice as I got a bitter experience of life. I had really a bitter experience of life. So, what could I say to him? I really had no answer to him. Really, I had no answer at all.

I had a definition of life. One my own ideology of life that was different with everyone’s definition. I often used to think that life and death are like two sides of a coin, any time the death may come. The dependent factor might be the time. Yes, the time, no one knows, when the death comes. One of my friends often used to tell me that you may not have a fear of death but who knows! Death would come when you are not ready for the death. She was right. Really, we might not have the fear of death but we don’t leave ourselves on the lap of the God every time as the life is materialistic. We always need a physical materials like we need something to eat; without it we will die. We need somewhere a place to do rest ourselves; shelter. And we need something to protect the unconditional body; clothes. So, after all, we are bound by the materialistic life. We can try but still it is very hard to break the boundary. It is really very hard to come out from this kind of mud. It’s really a big challenge to break the boundary and limit of these kind of affection with the life and immediate necessity of the life. Really, everyone can not come out from this mud and they feel hardness if the sequence of happiness breakes. Here, the question is what is exactly the sequence of the happiness? We all know, our life is completely driven by one kind of illusion, a fantasy and one day dream. Really our life is driven by the fantasy. We like to be happy on the future expection. We think this that and feel that I got that, I would do that and I would be like that. Like an imagination of a teen aged boy about his dream girl. He might have a feelings and expectation of his girl friend. Its ideal expectation and there is not compulsory that he will get exactly that kind of girl friend. Is that means, is that a fantasy, a day dream or illusion? Really, it is an illusion. Is there any guarantee that he will get his model girl? If he never got his model girl than what happens? The chance is he would start thinking about the reality not in fantasy. He would come in reality. Is that break of sequences of happiness? Yes, in one sense, it is really a break of sequences of his expectations.

Then what might be relation in between the illusion and reality? Is illusion associated with reality or reality with illusion? it is really a big question of life. In above teen aged boy case, he was bound by a fantasy, an expectation of a dream girl. But when he could not get his dream girl, he suffered a pain; a break of sequence of happiness and he came to reality. Is that means, suffering pain or breaking of sequence of happiness is a catalyst for the determination to convert illusion into reality? yes, it seems that a pain suffered by a person is the determination factor for the reality of life.

Now, the new issue came as a pain. Actually, what is the pain? Or in other sense, what is the suffering of pain? When do we suffer a pain? Is there any link in between suffering of pain and sequences of happiness? We might say, breaking of happiness leads us a suffering of pain. Really, when can not meet the expectation, we suffer from a kind of mental depression. Because, we think, it would not happen but it happened. We will try to ignore the reality and want to avoid the real situation. But how could we ignore the present? How could we avoid the substance that is in front of us. How could we? Really, we can not avoid the situation and when we incline towards the acceptance of the core present, we suffer a lot of pain. We start crying and say our friends that we have seen the world and life. we would not have any wish. We would not have any wishes. At this time, we realise actually what is life. we start thinking about the uncontrollable power and unseen power in the universe, (often refer as the God). Now, we came to reality through the way of suffering of pain. We broke the illusion. now, we don’t have any fear of death and we are able to tolerate the bitter truth of the reality of life and death. When we get this phase, we can say, this phase of life is the final stage of life and we want nothing beside rest in peace. Really, that condition leads only one wish, that we want to rest our life in the God’s place. We want to dig our grave and we like to go to a never ending peace quietly.

Phases of life;

Life: as a form of living being comes in this universe.

Illusion: life is bound by fantasy and day dreaming

Unlimited wishes: boundless expectation with everyone and everything

Breaking the sequences: not meeting the expectation or unexpected incident to break the sequences of happiness

Suffering the pain: level and depth of a suffer in a form of pain that caused by breaking of sequences of happiness

Reality: realization of the actual position of life and breaking of the fantasy or the day dream.

A wish: only one wishes to go in rest of peace or to leave the universe.

Death: finish of life and goes to grave.