What is Fact!!

Fact is state of mind. If everything remaining same, fact is our beliefs on truthfulness on surroundings. In other words, we say something or some situation as fact, if we assume that as truth. Colour of sky is blue in day time. But why is it dark in night time? Blue was fact, it shouldn’t be dark in night time. Here, both are fact. Colour of sky is blue during day and dark during night time. But when we go in depth about the truth – about what exactly is the fact, we start using logic to verify our own beliefs on fact. Actually, we are not sure on the logic but we just used it and it worked and we said, reflection of light creates colour and it is universally accepted so we started believing on influence of reflection of light through our retina on any object.
I am single, definitely, it is fact, but I might not stay single for whole of my life and this fact might change. Here, the important point to understand is, fact is not changing but the process of fact is changing. For example, we say, ‘Wow, so wonderful sun raise!’ but, just after 12 hours we again say, ‘Wow, so fascinating twilight!’ Both are fact as both are universal truth. But different is situation of surrounding. My point is, if process of dilemma changes with respect to time (here time is absolute), then, fact changes and never to forget, both are true so both are undeniable FACT!!!

Satisfaction! Achievement! Happiness!

Need is always in a same threshold level. So it never changes from individual to individual. On the contrary, desire varies on each single person. Like, Maslow’s theory of need’s hierarchy, first three basic needs, physical needs, love and affection need and social security needs are inevitable needs. But ego or esteem and self actualisations are desire of individuals.

According to him, ego/esteem and self actualisation come only after fulfilment of these basic needs. But, he misunderstood about the concept of need and desire and mixed up them. It is not necessary that someone who is not fulfilled with basic needs won’t have desire. There are thousands of examples who became empire rising from street. Even though, they were not having basic needs ‘enough’, their desire stimulated them to their success.

Now, when we come to point of satisfaction, we need to balance ‘need’ and ‘desire’. That means, question of satisfaction on need or satisfaction on desire

A line in between need and desire makes separation for satisfaction and we can classify it as basic satisfaction and achieved satisfaction. Basic satisfaction is from the fulfilment of basic needs and achieved satisfaction is from the fulfilment of our desire.

When someone feels satisfy from basic needs but he/she is not having any desire, he/she can be happy.

When someone feels satisfy from basic needs and achieved desire, he/ she can also be happy.

Here, I would like to clarify on desire more which may go till infinite level. So, if someone satisfies from basic needs but is having infinite level of desires, he/she would never feel satisfy and that cause him to make unhappy for forever.

So, basic needs -> basic satisfaction -> basic happiness -> not ambitious

Desire -> achieved satisfaction ->achieved happiness -> more ambitious

Life!!

Once, someone asked me about the life, what could I say him? I had left all the facilities of the easiness of the life. I was in the way of enlightenment of life, I was trying to persuade the connection of life with death, and still I was not getting even a single ray that could help me to enlighten the life and the definition of the death. I could say all of these things to him. I listened him and I got in puzzle. I did not reply to him. In spite, I started thinking about the way and the pattern of life that how we spend and how we feel. I had no choice as I got a bitter experience of life. I had really a bitter experience of life. So, what could I say to him? I really had no answer to him. Really, I had no answer at all.

I had a definition of life. One my own ideology of life that was different with everyone’s definition. I often used to think that life and death are like two sides of a coin, any time the death may come. The dependent factor might be the time. Yes, the time, no one knows, when the death comes. One of my friends often used to tell me that you may not have a fear of death but who knows! Death would come when you are not ready for the death. She was right. Really, we might not have the fear of death but we don’t leave ourselves on the lap of the God every time as the life is materialistic. We always need a physical materials like we need something to eat; without it we will die. We need somewhere a place to do rest ourselves; shelter. And we need something to protect the unconditional body; clothes. So, after all, we are bound by the materialistic life. We can try but still it is very hard to break the boundary. It is really very hard to come out from this kind of mud. It’s really a big challenge to break the boundary and limit of these kind of affection with the life and immediate necessity of the life. Really, everyone can not come out from this mud and they feel hardness if the sequence of happiness breakes. Here, the question is what is exactly the sequence of the happiness? We all know, our life is completely driven by one kind of illusion, a fantasy and one day dream. Really our life is driven by the fantasy. We like to be happy on the future expection. We think this that and feel that I got that, I would do that and I would be like that. Like an imagination of a teen aged boy about his dream girl. He might have a feelings and expectation of his girl friend. Its ideal expectation and there is not compulsory that he will get exactly that kind of girl friend. Is that means, is that a fantasy, a day dream or illusion? Really, it is an illusion. Is there any guarantee that he will get his model girl? If he never got his model girl than what happens? The chance is he would start thinking about the reality not in fantasy. He would come in reality. Is that break of sequences of happiness? Yes, in one sense, it is really a break of sequences of his expectations.

Then what might be relation in between the illusion and reality? Is illusion associated with reality or reality with illusion? it is really a big question of life. In above teen aged boy case, he was bound by a fantasy, an expectation of a dream girl. But when he could not get his dream girl, he suffered a pain; a break of sequence of happiness and he came to reality. Is that means, suffering pain or breaking of sequence of happiness is a catalyst for the determination to convert illusion into reality? yes, it seems that a pain suffered by a person is the determination factor for the reality of life.

Now, the new issue came as a pain. Actually, what is the pain? Or in other sense, what is the suffering of pain? When do we suffer a pain? Is there any link in between suffering of pain and sequences of happiness? We might say, breaking of happiness leads us a suffering of pain. Really, when can not meet the expectation, we suffer from a kind of mental depression. Because, we think, it would not happen but it happened. We will try to ignore the reality and want to avoid the real situation. But how could we ignore the present? How could we avoid the substance that is in front of us. How could we? Really, we can not avoid the situation and when we incline towards the acceptance of the core present, we suffer a lot of pain. We start crying and say our friends that we have seen the world and life. we would not have any wish. We would not have any wishes. At this time, we realise actually what is life. we start thinking about the uncontrollable power and unseen power in the universe, (often refer as the God). Now, we came to reality through the way of suffering of pain. We broke the illusion. now, we don’t have any fear of death and we are able to tolerate the bitter truth of the reality of life and death. When we get this phase, we can say, this phase of life is the final stage of life and we want nothing beside rest in peace. Really, that condition leads only one wish, that we want to rest our life in the God’s place. We want to dig our grave and we like to go to a never ending peace quietly.

Phases of life;

Life: as a form of living being comes in this universe.

Illusion: life is bound by fantasy and day dreaming

Unlimited wishes: boundless expectation with everyone and everything

Breaking the sequences: not meeting the expectation or unexpected incident to break the sequences of happiness

Suffering the pain: level and depth of a suffer in a form of pain that caused by breaking of sequences of happiness

Reality: realization of the actual position of life and breaking of the fantasy or the day dream.

A wish: only one wishes to go in rest of peace or to leave the universe.

Death: finish of life and goes to grave.

Human in Future!!

Human will get the optimum level of development. There will be only one government in earth. People will no longer believe in any faith. People will become more and more individualistic and there will be no groups in person. All of them will be very isolated but connected with each other. But there will be artificial societies created by softwares. They will be visualised as real but in reality they won’t. Population will drop drastically and women will no longer give birth. In spite, artificial test tube baby will be responsible. There will be no father, mother and any relatives. There will be only one , I, me and myself and will be responsible for federal government of earth. Name will change into systematized symbol from A to Z or in number system. There will be no marriages anymore. Anyone will have sex with anyone and sex will be supposed as eating dinner in one restaurant. There will be only one language and everyone will speak same and the language will be new era language typically different from any existing languages in the earth. Emotional feeling will be band and practice of emotion, e.g., love and faith will be supposed as illegal as it distracts the logical thought.

Unanswered Puzzle!!

When someone asks me about the existence of God I always get in puzzle and really feel desperate. What should I answer?? if I said, ‘there is not any existence of God at all!’ he or she might think me as atheist or non believer of any kind of faith. On the contrary, if I agreed with the existence of God, question in itself hits back to my mind! again and again!! Although my heart says, ‘believe it! Just believe it and don’t ask too many questions!’ and my logical mind says, ‘ come on! How can you believe without proof? Use your logic and get the evidence!!

Yes, as usual conflict in between mind and heart!! Mind says, ‘give the logic!’ and heart says, ‘keep in faith! Because you cannot prove or disprove everything in the universe as your understanding power is limited!’

‘Oh really?’ mind says, ‘if this is so, would you blindly follow every fallacy? Would you say two plus two as five?’

‘You use your logic to prove fallacy too! So you are the liar. At least I follow something/someone honestly and never point on it. But look at you! You even don’t respect your own blood (logic) and always point your figure on them.’ Heart says.

‘Yes that is true! I point my figure on logical evidence as I have to satisfy myself existence or non existence of someone/something. But look at you Mr Blind! You keep faith on superstition and if I had followed you, entire human race would still be in Stone Age!’ Mind says.

‘Oh really! That’s why you created ways of destruction, selfishness, war, injustice and arrogant behaviour in human race! You believe only in logic and you always say that you must survive for existence letting others die. You are nothing more than taker. You don’t know how to give up and sacrifice. You know what! Your logic is also based on your own benefit. Yes really!!you also change your logic if you found that you are getting some benefits. You can change your code and symbol. You can change your language and how could you ever say that two plus two is always four??’

Now, I am getting a HUGE puzzle about life!!! Could someone be out there to help me???